2 A 1I
Infant flat fee at SGD 150 return
Syd 1560 vs 888
Perth 1298 vs 698
Mel 1529 vs 857
Bb Sabrina start going to nanny 5mo in Mar '15. Generally her stay at nanny is quite fun because there are other 2 girls age 4 and 9 around. However feeding and bathing have been both challenging.
Feeding
First 2 days she cried during every single feed. Couldn't finish the bottle but need mummy to help bb complete the feed. On 3rd day bb cried less while feeding and able to finish (almost) a 3oz bottle, which is kinda too little for a 5mo bb. Milk volume slowly increased to 3.5oz per feeding. Our target is to further increase to 4oz and then maintain for a period of time. After 2 weeks she happily accept bottle from anyone, including baba.
Poo poo
From 3mo onwards, she used to poo consistently once or twice a day. Huge volume and clear for the whole day. No poo at night. But after gg nanny in 5mo, her poo patent changed. She poo frequently but in small amount. Every time she cried, poo followed. She even poo during night feed.
Bathing
Nanny using a small tub for bb to soak her body in. Quite challenging as bb doesn't really sit. But it is good to start training her to sit. Bb start crying the moment bb was put down on to nanny's bed.
Sleeping
During day time bb sleeps in the living room where nanny can watch her and does her kitchen chores at the same time. Evening nap is in nanny's room together with xuan2. Bb need help to sleep usually rocking, cuddling, lullaby and pacifier etc.
Playing
Bb doesn't really play but watch xuan2 and zhining play. The girls are playing little pony toy figures, castle, picture cards etc. They also role playing animals such as frogs and puppies. They don't switch on tv in the day which is a good thing.
I thought I'll be happy when bb goes to nanny. I'll have my own time to relax, rest and do whatever I want. But when the day finally came, it's a mixed feeling. After sending her, I return to a empty home. A place with all the bb stuff around but no bb. A place that is so quiet that i can hear my heartbeat. The moment I stepped into the house, I miss her already. Separation anxiety is so true, for both bb n mummy.
I can only fly to places in the north like bkk taipei Seoul and Japan. Another option is to fly to USA with united. Sigh so much hassle... Can't even use on sq
Surprisingly sin to aust one way is 17.5k sin to sea is also 17.5k
Sin to Seoul or tpe is 20k
Sin to Japan is 22.5k
Better use it for aust
#1 - 2009 in Germany. Poor student does not deserve to travel anywhere.
#2 - 2011 in Japan. Honeymoon.
#3 - 2015 in Singapore. We made a conscious decision not to go anywhere because bb Sabrina is too young to travel during this crazy period. So stay put in sg. This place was deserted. Less cars on the road. Even the popular free car park along orchard road was still available after 1pm. We made comprehensive lunch/dinner plan.
Sometimes I wonder why Singaporeans complain?
There are so much relief to their personal income tax
1. Earn income relief
2. CPF relief
3. CPF voluntary contribution relief
4. Parenthood tax rebate if your child is Singaporean
5. Child relief
6. Maid levy relief if you have a maid for woman with child or old folks to care
7. Working mother child relief for woman if your child is Singaporean
8. Parent relief
And finally if the government is generous a one time rebate of the final income tax.
I wonder if there is any tax to be paid at all? No wonder people can afford to go holiday